Friday, November 18, 2016

我的前男友

他背叛了前前女友
又背叛了前女友 至少三次吧 太夸张了吧?有人会说
别人都说 在爱情里的女人都是傻子 现在我信了
我也没想过会发生在我身上 呵呵
我真的要醒了 我想说也是报应吧
我也坦然的接受了

第一次的爱情 失败了
人的相处真的很复杂 很复杂
可能期望太高吧 以为人会变
脾气 对事的后果 责任感
看不到 就是看不到
甚至控制不了自己 动粗发泄
皮不伤 心却痛 麻了

最近的出轨新闻
也知道了谁谁谁出轨的事
是多么的感触
原来大多数男生
抗拒不了 新鲜感
好可怕 真的很可怕
怎能再相信爱情呢?

原来我的眼泪干了
打着这篇文章
竟然不需一滴眼泪

晚安



Sunday, September 11, 2016

完了吗

在朋友 家人 同事的眼中
也许我们是感情很好的情侣
实际上 我们好像陌生人
不知道什么让你变了
你的优先考虑 不再是我
出门不再牵手 即使我主动 你都会拒绝
不再关心我 不会想知道 我的空档时间会做什么
你就是不会想知道我的事情 我真的很伤心
都会傻傻的等着你问我 今天会做什么 这个礼拜我们去哪里哪里好
我骑脚车 摔伤了 你没来看我 那一刻我真的真的觉得
我还要跟这个人在一起吗 为什么你可以不理睬
我的心真的跌到谷里

我知道我的性格很强悍 可能这都变得理所当然
小事情 受伤而已 她可以应付
但我只是要的是关心 可以让我躺着的肩旁
也许你会觉得我说的都是屁话
但我真的真心希望我们有未来
在异地读书 工作 我只剩下你
我真得好怕孤单
其实现在也没两样 自己没发现 已习惯了孤单
他的世界再也没有我
都是一厢情愿
在意的事情 都变得没感觉

但也许孤单 更没烦恼
潇洒的放手 也需要金钱的支柱
没钱啊 我又不是富孩 等吧

Saturday, May 2, 2015

白痴

朋友在我生活中是不能缺少的

但有些人把友情看得一文不值
我看清了这些人
自然的 离他百万公里

好朋友比一个才认识不久的异性
来得没价值?
你头脑生虫

幸亏你已离我百万公里
好恶心的人

Saturday, February 7, 2015

一个人

当我一个人的时候
伤心事总是会浮现在脑海里
心情差得很

好后悔
不好好把握时间
回家看看我从小的玩伴
它就这样病走了
我 好想念它
回家的意思也没了
分离的感觉好痛苦....

现在的生活好不踏实
感觉计时炸弹随时爆炸
我在等待那个能被依靠的安全感
好想有段新的生活
努力补救 肯本只是在骗自己
我 坏了
请你用心修好我


Wednesday, January 21, 2015

伤了

我知道我应该结束这感情
在他面前好像回到以前那样
可是我演的好累
我自己去了哪里
我还是很在意 我知道
真的值得我放下自尊
继续这段破路不堪的感情吗
真的很累 很痛
很恨 为什么要发生这些事

你的心完全不属于我的
我好失败


Thursday, October 9, 2014

生活

人总是为了钱烦恼
为了钱 去干活
这是人生循环
没得选择

如果你会想
其实你赚钱是为了
做更多你想做的事
而不是因为钱
把自己的生活
弄得没价值

如果能用自己的能力
把生活弄得精彩
这是骄傲

五彩缤纷的生活
如果那只是旁人的辅助
那只是一朵小花
因为别人的细心灌溉
才能开花结果

当然 生活方式
是自己的选择
根本没对错
只要对自己信心
身边人的意见
也只能是建议

谁不想 不打工
谁不想 当老板
谁不想 玩游世界
谁不想 做自己喜欢做的事
因为身不由己
如果有能力 谁不想?

Thursday, September 25, 2014

8 Important Reasons To Let Go Of People Who No Longer Play An Important Part In Your Life

1. Let go because things are not the same anymore.

People simply grow a part, which is perfectly normal. You realize you want different things, no longer share the same interests, no longer understand and no longer connect.
Sometimes, it’s a matter of accepting that it takes time to let go, rather than holding on to something that just can’t be brought back, was lost a long time ago or perhaps, was never really there at all.
It’s difficult to hold on to people in life, but remember that you’re destined to meet different people along your journey who will bring you happiness, sorrow, pain and joy.

2. Let go because the trust and loyalty isn’t there.

If you know in your heart that you can’t trust this person and he or she cannot be loyal, then you need to ask yourself why this person is in your life. Trust and loyalty are the foundation of any friendship and relationship.
If they’re not present, it may only lead to paranoia, frustration, tension and anger that you’re better off without feeling.
Find someone with whom you can share your deepest darkest secrets and you know that after walking away, his or her lips will remain tightly sealed. Find someone whose faithfulness to you will be unquestionable because his or her actions, rather than empty promises, bring you a peace of mind.

3. Let go because you are unclear of where things stand.

Engaging in an undefined friendship or relationship is confusing because you don’t know what you mean to the person, if anything at all. If the person can’t make you feel as though you’re significant, reflect on why you’re allowing someone to treat this way.
Be in the company of someone who is proud to have you in his or her life and will make that known to you and the rest of the world. Be in the company of someone who won’t gamble with your heart and mind simply because he or she knows you’re not going anywhere.

4. Let go if the friendship or relationship is damaging to you.

If the friendship/relationship is making you unhappy or miserable, it’s time to bid the person farewell. We must not allow ourselves to feel trapped and used to being treated far less well than we deserve.
If someone is putting you down, competing with you, not paying attention to you, not caring about you, abusing you, embarrassing you in front of others, making you question yourself, belittling you or simply just not caring about you, remove the negativity from your life as soon as possible. Respect yourself enough to be able to walk away.

5. Let go if you simply don’t see eye to eye.

It is hard to make a relationship work if you can’t ever agree or see each other’s points of view. If the one thing you can agree on is that neither of you can agree, it might be time to walk away.
In many friendships and relationships, people come together through unlikely chances, through their differences and lack of similarities. Therefore, it can work, but if you find that it’s a significant source of many of your disputes and tensions, get out now.

6. Let go if you’re the one fighting to make it work.

If your relationship makes you feel as though you’re the only one putting in effort, time and love, reflect on whether or not it’s worth it. If someone truly loves you, cares for you or wants and needs you, the person will never allow you to invest disproportionate effort.
Find someone who makes you feel worthwhile and worthy. Find someone who fights to have you in his or her life. Find someone who knows how lucky he or she is to have you.
Find someone who acknowledges everything you have done and will do. Don’t waste your time on anything less.

7. Let go if he or she doesn’t encourage you or believe in you.

If you find that your relationship isn’t providing you with support, reflect on what the person is providing. You deserve someone who will be there to encourage you throughout your journey and believe in you maybe even more than you believe in yourself.

8. Let go if the relationship isn’t bringing you what you want and need.

Ask yourself whether you can do without the relationship or whether it’s something you unquestionably want and deserve. Sometimes, there’s this belief that we can be “too fussy” with what we want from others in life, but then again, why should we settle for anything less than happiness?
Don’t ever allow someone to make you feel needy for wanting someone who will love, care and support you, someone who will listen and give you insightful advice, someone who wants the same things, someone you can trust and will be loyal to you, someone who believes so strongly in you and your capabilities. Just someone who makes you feel like you’re someone.